The modern world makes it harder to discover what you didn't know you were looking for. There's an art to finding something when you're not looking for it. That's what I've discovered and I'm glad I did.
I was living my dull, broken hearted , single again life and one day looked up and was struck by the thunderhammer of love. I wasn't looking for him, but I found him. I had long since given up on the concept of having a relationship again or planning to have it 2 or three years after.
6 months later, I am again waist-deep in the adventure of being committed again. I now have a happy, contented and worth living life- and every day is a bouquet of surprises. I wake up each morning, put on my shoes, and face a new day of wonder and discovery. Why deny or refuse such a gift? If I had been looking for it, I would not have found it. It was serendipity, ability to make fortunate discoveries accidentally, that opened that door in my heart once more.
